Chronicles of a Selfish Mommy

2013 Reflections

Posted on: December 31, 2013

As I sit here listening to our contractor talk about everything that needs to be repaired in our home. I am simultaneously excited, upset, energized, and grateful. As I scour the sites (ok, pinterest) for ideas on remodels, I can’t help but think we were actually very fortunate this year. What a way to head into 2014! Talk about leaving 2013 with a BANG! It’s really been one pretty great year, though.

Let’s start with the latest event. To put it bluntly, our home flooded. That’s right, FLOODED. While I was off running my marathon, a pipe connection leading to an upstairs bathroom decided it would be the perfect time to crack. And crack it did, sending water spraying through the entire bathroom & soaking my daughter’s room, playroom, and some of the guest bedroom. We don’t know how long it ran for, we suspect btw 12-24 hrs which was enough time for the entire downstairs to flood. It was so bad, neighbors called to tell us it was coming out of our front door and DOWN the OUTSIDE of our home. Neighbors were kind enough to kill water and power to the home as soon as they noticed. All the downstairs floors were covered with at least a 1/2 inch of water. Suffice it to say, all floors were considered trashed. The downstairs ceilings & most walls in the office, laundry, hallway & living rooms were also ruined. This means all crown molding and baseboards downstairs had to come off as well. Oddly enough, only a few pieces of furniture & electronics were damaged.

I chose to see this as an opportunity to update our home. So, I am excited that HECK YEA, ALL NEW floors both up and downstairs, baseboards, crown molding, paint! Upset because the water damage has burdened and stressed our lives with the state of our home & the management & work it will take to get it fixed. The place where we come to relax and recharge is in shambles. The time & the process of reinstating it will be frustrating. But, it’s like we are gonna have a brand new home without moving!

Working backwards from this point, I mentioned a marathon. You read this right, a marathon. This was my 3rd marathon attempt & the 2nd I completed. It was better than my 2nd attempt which I didn’t complete, but not quite as good as my first. Let’s just say that I finished & I am not that eager to do another one anytime soon. The marathon kick I was on may be a post for another day….

We went to Tucson to visit the Cox family over Thanksgiving.  We had a wonderful time while there.  Even had the chance to take some much-needed family pictures!  The getting to Tucson was another incident all together.  En route, my brand new car’s sunroof decided to explode.  And by explode, I mean just that.  It shattered into millions of pieces.  THE. ENTIRE. ROOF.  Thank goodness the mesh covering was closed and no one was injured.  We drove 4 hours in cold weather with the sun roof covered in cardboard taped to my car.  It was mostly just annoyingly loud.  It was fixed (mostly) in Tucson, but not in time for Connor to make school and my to make an important meeting.  Hence, C & I got to FLY back home!  Unfortunately, the sun visors weren’t screwed in or something like that.  I had to go into the Austin dealer to get that corrected.

I went to Brazil for a week for a work conference.  I wish I could say that I saw a bunch of sites; alas, I did not.  However, I DID meet some amazing, wonderful people, went to a football (soccer) game, & ate some Brazilian food.  I got to run the streets of Porto Alegre and along the banks of the beautiful Guaiba River (lake).  Those memories shall stay with me.  I am so fortunate!

In September Jeff & I went to London with the Mills.  2013 concluded 10 yrs of marriage and this was our celebration.  I do not have enough good things to say about the experience.  It was AMAZING!  It was WONDERFUL!  There was SO MUCH to see & do.  We had SO MUCH FUN!  We spent about a week there & I think we covered all the main attractions and sights.  This probably deserves its own post (which I will most likely never do).  Brooke started full-time Pre-K which she LOVES!  Connor started 2nd grade which to date has been a breeze for him.

The summer months were a blast as well!  I got promoted at work.  It’s been a real mental challenge for me to switch gears & become someone who our mgmt team wants me to become.  It’s a stressful gig that I still sometimes feel like I am not cut out for.  I do enjoy my new role & continue to rise up (I hope) to the expectations laid out for me.  Our family took a South Padre Beach vacation with the Mills & Maleks.  With so many people you might think it would be cumbersome; surprisingly, it went AWESOME!  We spent almost a week in SP and it was the perfect amount of  time.  Being from south Texas one would have expected me to have been there before.  I had not, so it was a good first experience for me as well!  Looking forward summer 2014!

The earlier parts of the year are somewhat of a blur.  Lots of races for me, some I even placed in my age groups! We kicked off 2013 with a lil trip to Disneyland & we are heading out of 2013 with a nice uneventful night at home.

Welcome 2014, the Cox family is gonna OWN you!


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101 in 1001 – Ongoing

6. Workout 3x per week
7. Keep weight below 130lbs
8. Use Teeth Whitening Trays
10. Volunteer 1x per quarter (3/11)
11. Prepare 1 new recipe a month (15/33)
18. Professional Family Photo once per yr (2/3)
19. Date night every other month (12/18)
32. Keep my sites updated (Facebook, Wordpress, and personal)
33. Family Vacations once per yr (1/3)
34. Monthly Pedicures and Manicures
37. Donate Blood once per quarter (3/11)
38. Spring and Fall Cleanings (3/6)
39. Donate items from those cleanings to Goodwill (3/6)
40. Use all my gift cards
43. Use cloth bags for shopping every chance I get
44. Read one book every other month (31/20)
46. Decorate Home for the Holidays/Seasons
51. Clean out fridge twice a year (3/6)
52. Clean out pantry twice a year (3/6)
53. Take photos at important events
54. Learn and keep tabs on personal and home finances
55. Monthly work performance plan updates (5/33)
56. Update resume yearly or with every job change (2/3)
64. Say a one positive thing for every one negative
92. Give Jeff and kids kisses EVERY day
94. Adhere to my anti-aging cream ritual
99. Wear something OTHER than jeans once a week (144/143)

No Longer Interested:
2. Attend said Church 2x per month (2/66)
47. Event Planner courses or readings
83. Spend at least once a every OTHER week on boat during warm weather (May-Sept)

101 in 1001 – One Time Event

High Motivation:
12. Landscape Front Yard
13. Landscape Back Yard
16. Remove Spider Veins
17. Update Driver’s License restrictions
26. PGMP Certification
30. Green Belt Certification
31. Repair Acura Leather
35. Participate in an Adventure Race
36. Start kids' College Fund
41. Update my phone and address excel spreadsheet
45. Appraise and insure Rings and earrings
48. Clean out jewelry box
61. Travel outside the US
62. Update MP3 player songs
66. Buy a safe
68. Sift thru mementos to either keep, sale, or donate
71. Try Snowboarding
77. Write will
81. Own a Louis Vuitton Purse
86. Actually catch some air wakeboarding
87. Bunny Hop Switch on wakeboard
88. Give Microdermabrasion a try
90. Beat 5k PR - 28:15 Completed: 7/03/10 28:09
91. Beat 5 Miler PR - 47:13
95. Get back to VEGAS!
98. Come up w/new Morning Shift Plan

Low Motivation:
9. Start Side Business (House Flipping, Event Planner, Book, Vending, Duplex/Apt)
15. Take a Spanish Language Course
27. Resize and Wear Aggie Ring
28. Attend an Aggie Bonfire
29. Attend an Austin Midnight Yell Practice
65. Organize my body & mind by buying & using a treadmill
72. Be an extra in a movie or TV show
80. Wii & Wii Fit
84. Play in Poker tourney that doesn’t include friends nor family
85. Poker moratorium for 3 mths
96. Get someone else to start a list
101. Visit Holly’s place when baby comes

101 in 1001 – Completed

1. Register for a Church Completed: 6/06/08
3. Laser hair removal Completed: 2/24/10
4. Baby #2 Completed: 2/09/09
5. Run a 10k Completed: 4/26/08
14. Take a Creative Arts Class (writing, painting, photography) Completed: 2/12/10 at Painting with a Twist
20. Register Connor for a sport when he’s able Completed: 8/12/09
21. Promotion or Job Change to do so Completed: 5/14/10
23. Find and hire a housekeeper completed: 2/8/08
24. Potty & Bed train Connor
25. Wean Connor from pacifier complete 6/1/09
42. Buy and use a PDA Completed: 6/16/08
49. Crown Molding in dining, living, and master bedroom Completed: 4/2010
50. Built in shoe storage in master closet Completed: Dec 09 as Jeff built them for me!
57. Visit a historical site Completed: 9/5/08
58. Visit a museum Completed: 9/6/08
59. Visit a zoo completed:12/24/07
60. Ride a train Completed: 10/11/09 Riding Thomas the Train & 12/20/09 riding the North Pole Flyer
63. New MP3 headphones Complete: July 09
67. Obtain concealed handgun license completed: 1/27/08
69. New pots and pans completed: 2/28/08
70. Frame Family photo completed: 11/08
73. Pay off one of our vehicles Completed: January '09
74. See a Play Completed: Disney Live 12/19/08, Dora Live 7/22/09, Wicked 8/25/09
75. Vote in the next presidential and local elections completed 10/08
76. Become CPR and First Aid Certified Completed: 4/12/08
78. Ride the Zilker Zephyr Completed: 5/28/08
79. Go on a cruise Completed: 9/14 thru 9/19
89. Get a Facial Completed: 6/4/10
93. Have 2nd Baby’s room finished BEFORE she is born Completed: 2/3/09
97. Get a massage Completed: 6/4/10
100. Visit my brother’s new condo Completed: 3/22/08

Supplemental List

102. Watch 1 Netflix Movie a week (53/143)
103. a canopy tour Completed: 11/14/09 for Amanda's 30th
104. Join the Capital City A&M Club Completed: 4/13/08
105. Attend 2 A&M Club events a year (0/6)
106. Have Jeff hang curtains
107. New bedding for Master Bedroom completed: 1/11/09
108. Kitchen Organization System
109. Be a mentor to someone
110. Do a family year end blog every yr end (1/3)
111. APICS Classes
112. Migrate Connor to new room Completed: 8/21/08
113. Update Workout to a Guest room Completed: 1/14/09
114. Office Furniture: desks, chairs, bookcases Complete: 8/09
115. Visit a Chiropractor
116. Get Moles checked out Completed: 4/29/08
117. ITIL Certification
118. Attend a circus, rodeo, or fair Completed: 8/24/08 circus
119. Create photo books once a year for great-grandparents and grandparents (2/3)
120. Update and organize personal cookbook
121. Fall &/or Holiday Festivals (0/2)
122. Renaissance Faire

The Bucket List

Things I want to do before I die
1. Ride the tallest Roller Coaster, Kingda Ka, in Jackson, NJ at Six Flags Great Adventure
2. Visit Redwood National Park to view the oldest and tallest trees in the world
3. Camp Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming to see the tallest geyser eruptions
4. Florida Everglades
5. Smithsonsian Museum in Washington, DC
6. Grand Canyon
7. Pyramids of Giza - Egypt
8. Paris, France and all it's relevant sites
9. Great Wall of China
10. Taj Mahal, India
11. Petra, Jordan
12. Greece & Italy and all their relevant sites
13. Chicchen Itza, Mexico Completed: 9/16/09
14. Statue of Liberty, Hoover Dam, Mount Rushmore, Niegra Falls, Empire State Bldg
15. Britain/England and all it's relevant sites

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